filia-luciferi:

I honestly do not understand those people at all.

Holding onto anger or old grudges is like drinking  a cup of poison and expecting the other person to die.

I think it’s time to be mature, considering how they claim they are adults but act like screaming teenagers.

I’m just tired of seeing my friends, mutuals and others get mauled by a pack of wolves for fucking up and making mistakes because no one is 100% flawless and perfect. No matter how much we wish we were, we are not. 

There is a good way to educate and tell someone they messed up and how to make their rights to their wrongs.

And then there is the bad way, which is the majority of what I see happening, And it is so disgusting. It needs to change.

leiaorggana:

Let’s just take a second to appreciate the three main ladies of Star Wars. They were not stereotyped as stoic, unemotional, action girls. They were not stereotyped as the most emotional, sweetest, and softest member of the group, because they definitely weren’t compared to the guys around them.

Padme Amidala, the young girl who saw a child who needed comfort and covered him with a blanket was the same Padme Amidala who announced she wasn’t afraid to die, who was not afraid to take action. Padme Amidala, who believed in the good of people was the same Padme who strode away from assassination attempts and confronted the Senate.

Leia Organa, the teenage girl who stood toe to toe with Governor Tarkin and practically spit in Darth Vader’s face was the same person who was so patient with a jittery ewok and so kind towards Luke. The woman who decided to take charge and save her own skin, who could have a glare so dark and make her words so scathing, directed her focus on a better future, on hope for people. Leia Organa, who loved and hated so fiercely.

Rey, the lone scavenger, who learned to deal with harshness and could take down thugs faster than you could blink an eye, was so in awe of greenery. Rey, who so desperately needed food, who knew the rules of survival better than anyone, refused to sell BB-8. Rey, who could be gentle and kind could also be outspoken and tough and so much more powerful than anyone imagined.

They all have more than one kind of strength. They are both hard and soft and they cannot be defined by just one trait, because they’re so much more than that.

worldflower:

You know what I love?  Redemptive story arcs.  I love characters who fuck up.  Who know they’ve fucked up, and it’s not because of something they couldn’t control or didn’t know – it’s because of their own choices.  And I love it when they are brave enough to stand up and say “I was wrong”, and then they spend forever trying to undo what they did.  To me that’s more important than heroes who never screw up, because I’m not perfect, so when I screw up and need the courage to admit it, I need people to look to who did the same thing.

snoozemutton:

sassare:

peachbunni:

snoozemutton:

livin’ the dream

Lmao i love how 2 ppl just poke and punch the guy

The poker takes their headphones off that’s real, deep love.

this is one of my fave comments aight
there are tiny things ppl don’t have to do but theY DO n it makes ur heart explode

#just like when someone pauses eating to pay attn to u #how could u tear yourself away from the allure of deliciousness

witchinghhour:

I think it’s really excessive how ppl expect that bc u have ur phone with u that u are available to communicate at all times tbh I don’t respond to ppls messages ALL THE TIME and not bc I fell asleep or am out of service or have a good excuse even but bc I just don’t want to be accessible or in a conversation, all the time, always

Nobody before the cell phone was available to communicate at every second of the day and I expect to be able to draw a boundary and respond to my friends when i can be fully present in interacting with them

People should be allowed to respond to you when it is comfortable for them to do so